Most people believe that they fail to build new habits because they’re not motivated or disciplined enough. But that’s not the real problem. After 20 years as a doctor and a coach, working with hundreds of people on personal development, I’ve seen the same pattern over and over… and it has nothing to do with […]

There was a time when I was working full-time as a family doctor. I had two healthy boys, a beautiful home, and all the stability I had ever wanted.  My life made total sense, and on paper, everything looked perfect. But inside, I felt like I was slowly disappearing. I knew I felt stuck, but […]

I used to think change was about discipline. If only I could cultivate more focus, better habits, and earlier mornings, I would finally achieve my dream life. So I brought the snazziest color-coded planner I could find, downloaded all the habit tracker apps, and listened to endless self-improvement podcasts. But guess what? No matter how […]

Bad habits don’t always look toxic. Sometimes they look responsible, smart, even productive. People might praise you for them, saying things like “you’re so disciplined,” and “I don’t know how you do it all.” For years, I lived my life following three “good habits.” They brought me promotions, a good reputation, and a successful career, […]

We’ve all met them… those people who just radiate something. They walk into a room and everyone turns toward them. They don’t hustle for attention or try to impress, yet people are drawn in. What makes them so magnetic? It’s not luck, and it’s not some elusive “it factor.” It’s actually a handful of small, […]