How to Reinvent Yourself: Feed Your Mind the Future You Want

When it comes to goal-setting, many people think that once we choose and set a goal, everything just magically falls into place.

Well, spoiler alert; it doesn’t.

You don’t rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of what you feed your mind.

Every thought, every input, every idea is quietly shaping your future self, so if those things do not align with the person you want to become, you won’t become it. Instead, you’ll become whatever those thoughts and ideas align with.

For example, let’s say you set a goal to start a new business, but your inner dialogue is full of self-doubt, and the content you consume reinforces fear, scarcity, or comparison. What you’re feeding your mind isn’t nurturing the future you want; it’s sabotaging it.

The good news is that once you begin feeding your mind with thoughts, ideas, and influences that match the future you want, your identity will follow. 

In this article, I’m sharing exactly how to shift your mental inputs and give your mind the nourishment it needs to thrive.

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1. Audit What’s Occupying Your Mind

Reinvention doesn’t begin by adding more. It starts by removing what’s in the way.

Cognitive load theory tells us that our brains have limited working memory, and when they are overloaded with noise, such as notifications, stress, and negative thoughts, our ability to focus and think clearly disappears quickly. 

I felt this intensely during my medical residency. 

Even off-duty, my mind was still full of hospital noise: adrenaline, pager alerts, constant vigilance. I didn’t realise it then, but my mental diet was purely cortisol.

And this state of survival mode will always keep you stuck in your old patterns, because your brain’s priority is to just get through the day, not to reinvent your life or smash your goals.

So here’s your first step: Do a 24-hour mental audit.

Notice what you consume, who you talk to, what you scroll, and which thoughts keep repeating.

Then choose one recurring input that pulls you back into old-you mode and remove it from your mental diet for just one day.

2. Adopt the Future-Self Filter

Every thought, video, and conversation either reinforces your old identity or shapes your new one.

Research on future self-continuity shows that when you feel connected to who you’re becoming, you make better long-term choices (around money, health, and career) because that future self feels real, not abstract.

In other words:  When your future self feels real, your present self stops messing around.

This is exactly how I got back into learning French. My current self did not need to be fluent in French. But my future self… the one living between Canada and Europe, giving talks, and writing books, absolutely did.

So by taking action and studying a little bit of French every day, I began feeding the person I was becoming, not the person I currently was.

Start filtering everything in your life through that lens. Whenever you need to make a choice, ask yourself, “Is this future-me food?”

If the answer is no… it doesn’t need to be on your mental plate.

3. Curate Your Inputs

Most of the time, we’re not choosing our mental diets; the algorithm is.

And here’s why this is sabotaging our minds: Algorithms aren’t wise or ethical, they’re mathematical. 

Algorithms don’t care about your future self; they care about what keeps you scrolling. 

Pause on a rant, you get more rants. Click on a productivity video, and you’re flooded with hustle culture that makes you feel behind. Even self-improvement content often thrives on convincing you you’re broken so it can sell you a fix.

To nurture your mind with what your future self needs, you must apply a filter… and no, I’m not talking about Instagram filters.

Do a quick check: What do you actually want your brain to be marinating in?

Curate your inputs with intention so your brain is being fed content that BUILDS you, not content that makes you feel worse.

4. Replace Junk Thoughts With Identity-Food 

This next tip is the mental equivalent of upgrading from a gas-station muffin to a beautifully curated breakfast.

When it comes to eating well, it’s not enough to remove junk food. You must replace it with something nutritious. 

The same is true for your mental diet. It’s not enough to remove junk thoughts; you have to replace them with something better, otherwise your brain just goes back to whatever’s familiar.

To feed your identity something better, use this simple framework:

Notice → Neutralize → Nourish.

1. Notice: Catch the thought – “I’m behind,” “I always burn out,” “Who do you think you are?”
2. Neutralize: Don’t argue with it, don’t shame yourself, just label it: “Oh—old identity talking.”
3. Nourish: Replace it with something true and empowering. Change “I’m behind” with “I’m becoming,” or “I always burn out” to “I’m learning a new pattern.”

The more you do this, the more you’ll move towards your future self. 

Here’s why:

Repetition rewires the brain and builds belief. Belief forms identity. And identity shapes behavior.

5. Feed Your Future Self With Better Books

Now you know why replacing junk thoughts matters, you’re probably wondering: where do these better thoughts come from?

You need ideas in your environment that are smarter than your current patterns, more expansive than your current beliefs, and aligned with the person you’re becoming. 

Books, intentional learning, and thoughtful content are powerful because they give your brain pre-filtered thinking, which is deeper, sharper, and far more useful than the social media noise we usually consume.

In the past year, I’ve been using Shortform to upgrade my mental diet.

If you haven’t heard of it, Shortform produces short but supercharged guides to nonfiction books. They go beyond simple summaries, offering in-depth explanations, commentary, and exercises to help you actually apply what you learn. 

In the last 20 years, there has been an explosion of books, articles, podcasts, and videos… and let’s be honest, no one has enough free time to consume all these awesome ideas.

Shortform makes it easy to access the world’s best ideas quickly, deeply, and intentionally, covering everything from self-improvement and psychology to business, health, and relationships.

Right now, you can try Shortform for free and get a discount on the annual subscription through my partner link.

Reinvention is not about grinding harder. It’s about thinking differently, and Shortform makes it easy to feed your brain better ideas.

Ready to Feed Your Future Self?

In this week’s YouTube video, I dive deeper into these methods and share two additional (and even more powerful) tips on feeding your mind for your future self..

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Resources:

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